This took place a week or so ago and I've been of two minds about writing about it (the reasons for which will become apparent). But even if nothing much happened it left an impression, and so here goes...
It was a nice day and we went on a long drive up through rural Mississippi, with no fixed destination. We ended up in the middle of the day in a small town called Columbia, a county seat, and sure enough there was a prominent courthouse at one end of the main street. The town reminded me a little of Goderich, Ontario, but was poorer and not so interesting architecturally (at least I didn't feel inspired to take photographs).
We got out and walked Isabel while at the same time looking for a place for lunch. Hating chain restaurants, we're always on the lookout for local hangouts and we found a promising place on a side street; we put the dog back in the car (it was not a hot day) and went back for lunch to a restaurant called the Round Table.
Let's just say the Round Table exceeded expectations, in more ways than one. It was in a shabby-looking late nineteenth century house and the sign said the restaurant had been established in 1940. It had the air of an old-fashioned rooming house (if that's not redundant -- whoever heard of a new-looking rooming house?). In fact it had been a rooming house when the then owner, a Ms. Ida Rawls, "with the assistance of several elderly ladies who lived in her home at the time, served meals practically around the clock to weary workers" (this from the back of the menu). The workers were from a parachute factory (apparently the only one in the U.S.) and nearby oil fields and, in the war years, Columbia, like practically everywhere else, was booming.
Today, like practically everywhere else in the American heartland, not so much. But the Round Table still survives. (Maybe the parachute factory does too, but I doubt it.) The name should have suggested something, but we were quite unprepared for what awaited inside. We walked into a room in which there was a single, very large table, seating at least 14. Everyone sat at the table, which was basically a sitting buffet in the sense that the table and the food on it revolved (although not the outer ring where you ate), like a big lazy susan. I had never seen this style (?) of dining before; one of the other patrons said later there was only one other one of the kind in the state, and that health regulations didn't permit them anymore, but that the surviving ones had been grandfathered (which didn't make sense when you're talking health regulations!).
We were hungry. The food was fabulous and we would go back in a flash if it weren't so far. Fried chicken, meatloaf, mac and cheese, black-eyed peas, collard greens, rutabagas, cream corn and, for dessert, banana pudding, possum pie (made with pecans), and coconut pie -- this was maybe half of the homemade dishes and delicacies on display and just a spin of the table away. Oh, I wish I'd had the camera (a complete revolution of the table would have made a great little video).
But of course the other thing we were not prepared for was having lunch with total strangers. As it was getting on, there were just four other people there, who had pretty much finished -- a husband and wife beside us and across the table a man about 60 and his friend, a man mid-30s. Being Americans, and Southerners, they engaged us immediately, welcoming us to Mississippi. This was nice, but we felt a bit in the spotlight. One of the first questions, when they found out we were Canadian, was whether we liked our health care system; that led to a chorus of complaints that theirs was a mess (I rather dumbly said, "I thought you'd fixed it," meaning Obamacare, but -- fortunately -- they all treated that as a joke.) The discussion got more awkward from there, especially after the couple left, and there were just the two guys, who didn't seem to be in a hurry. They asked about our gun laws and the younger man confessed to being a gun collector -- he said he and his father (who was not the other man) together had several hundred guns! We ventured to ask something we'd vaguely wondered about -- whether we could purchase a gun in the U.S. They thought that, as foreigners, we probably couldn't at a store, but we could from a private owner, and the younger one said he had three guns out in his truck we could buy (he was joking, I think). The worst was the discussion of the President; according to the younger man: "Obama couldn't run a Macdonald's." The older one then gave a version of the ridiculous "birther" argument that Obama was not a U.S. citizen and was therefore not legally President. We kept our mouths shut. They obviously got a lot of their "information" from Fox News!
By the way, it is easy to suspect veiled racism behind comments about the "foreignness" of President Obama. But, later, Joey offered another theory about why Southerners in particular seem to fall prey to this: for decades they've had Southerners in the White House -- the two Bushes, Bill Clinton, Jimmy Carter, and Ronald Reagan (OK, the last was not strictly speaking a Southerner, but he could put on the folksy charm of one). With Obama maybe there are just too many degrees of separation, and his personality doesn't help. Not making excuses!
I should say it must have been pretty obvious we were gay and, while the conversation got uncomfortable at times, there was no hint of homophobia. Fortunately gay marriage did not come up! We all left the Round Table together and went our separate ways.